Marrying a partner you do not trust is frustrating because each time the person is out you will be wondering, “hum I wonder who he is with tonight” or doubted everything he says, start checking his cell phone to see who he talks to.
Sometime we felt to understand the person is a partner not a child; therefore, he will do whatever he wants. However, trusting him will make a big difference in the relationship. For the most part if he wants to cheat, he will always finds the time to do so regardless of our paranoia unless we will be fallowing him around 24/7.
A second thought, who has the time for what. It is easier to not be together.
I look forward to your comments.
Marie L. M.